Special Healer


May 20, 2019

Myths About Drinking Alcohol continues..

Dear Mr. Oden

After our second visit I was convinced that you are a very special healer, your clear and concise evaluation of problems buried deep in one’s heart and soul stored away for years (out of sight out of mind) but never dealt with to identify and heal. In years past I have had life coaches who I seemed to counsel and advise more than they helped me. Over the years, I had shrinks, analyst, and psychologist that could not procure me, to get me to share and open up as you have. It appears that you have the ability to identify certain personality traits, habits, and unconscious behaviors. I can tell you are very intuitive.

After I left your office I felt as though a ton of bricks I’ve been carrying around like an albatross was lifted and taken off of me. When I left our session it was like I was walking lighter on my feet. Seriously, I actually wanted to pay you more for the great service you provided me. I appreciate the fact that you are a real person, not the gum shoe by the book hack who hates the people and hates the profession. You took time with me to connect on many social and emotional levels. I look forward learning more about myself and the necessary changes I need to make. I’m sold! I believe you can get the cognitive juices flowing in just about anyone, people like Charles Manson aside. I look forward to working with you to bring your special healing talents and gifts to others.

Once again thank you for allowing me to look at things differently than I’ve looked at throughout my life. Or in my case, I didn’t look at the fact that I have the tendency to sweep my problems under the proverbial rug (out a sight- out a mind). Unless we are willing to face the problem head on and there is a game plan for the treatment of addictions, anxiety, phobias, or any other disorder in need of healing is as a hamster going nowhere in the wheel.

But you have a talent to bring the cream to the surface to identify and treat ones shortcomings. Yes, sir, I believe that you need to share your special gifts with the public. I know you can succeed in the teaching and or instructing others to follow your guidelines to help them help themselves! Brilliant! And so simple.

Thank you, Sincerely, Thank you.

Anonymous client

How do you stop a Bully


October 19, 2018

How to Stop a Bully

How do you stop a Bully?  The more awareness that is created the less youth suicides there will be — and all year round, you are one step closer to putting an end to bullying!

A bully is an individual who meets his “need” for self-worth, respect, empowerment, and validation, tragically, by repeatedly, dis-empowering others, over time. The bully will use verbal, physical, racial, sexual, financial, and cyber tactics, to name a few, to get what he wants without the other person’s consent. As one can discern bullying can be presented in a variety of ways. So, how do you know if you are getting bullied? There is blatant bullying which is up front and personal for all to see. For example, “Give me your lunch money or else,” Or, “If you don’t do this little favor for me you future here might be limited.”

On of my most popular edicts is to say, “Age is not a direct correlation of maturity. Just because someone is a specific age does not mean they display maturity.” Other ways to bully or “adult bullying” are what I call, “micro bullying.”

The one thing we all have in common is being human….we have experiences….life affirming or life diminishing (darkness)…..we want to talk about the whole spectrum of the human condition…..and make sense of it…..because of this we have created behavior….navigates in the world and survive it…..we create habits that work in the moment….today we do need those particular habits….we will make sense of the habit…

The human condition refers to the positive and negative aspects of being human. Events every person goes through like love, sex, childhood and death encompass the human condition.

Generally, the human condition refers to anything unique about being human, no matter the gender, race or religion of the person. Humans, unlike other beings have a sense of curiosity, try to understand the meaning of life, search for acceptance and gratification and understand and accept the inevitability of death. The human condition also refers to the fact that humans, unlike any other known species, are self-aware and reflective of the past.

  • Meet with fellow students and discuss how you can Change The Culture at your school.
  • Use our Student Participation Toolkit to begin conversations on how your school can be judgement and bully free.
  • Hold a discussion in your classroom where you allow students to openly speak and discuss their experiences with bullying and cyberbullying, and how these experiences have affected them and how they dealt with these moments.

The Needs Based Method Is a therapeutic process that is used to uncover the truth behind a specific behavior. The process empowers the individual to understand their emotions/behavior that arises when a specific need is met or not met in the moment so they can change it.

Stop a bully!

At Final Step, we shift behavior and communication and help you making sense of your life to empower you to move forward without hesitation.

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